20 Kind of People That Should Be On Your De-Friending List (My Thoughts)

Is you friend an FFL

Everyone has friends, life will be lonely if we didn’t have someone we call friend. Some friends are made consciously; others well, not so consciously. Some friendship began from childhood while some began just some minutes ago, whichever your friendship belongs, what matters is the future of the relationship you have with whoever the person is.

Here is a simple guide that may help you have a long lasting purposeful friendship. If your friend doesn’t meet these simple needs of every human -including you (except you’re from Mars) then you may want to start scribbling down some names on your ‘de-friending list’ soon.

1.       Someone who is unreliable.

2.      A person that is not disciplined.

3. A person that is not developing or getting better at something per time.

4.  Your friend who does not share the same passion as you.

5.      A person who rarely checks up on you.

6.      Someone that is either too secretive or loose.

7.      Someone that has never corrected or spoken frankly to you over a wrong you did.

8.     Someone who is negative and pessimistic all the time.

9.      An immoral and profane person.

10.  A manipulative person.

11.   Someone who abhors being seen publicly with you.

12.  A fearful person.

13.  A person who does not have a forgiving heart.

14.  A friend who doesn’t have or share his or her ideas.

15.   Someone who is gloomy whenever you are around.

16.  A dream or idea killer.

17.   Someone that is too money and women conscious.

18.  A backstabber.

19.  Someone is too kind, watch it, he may be after something.

20. A person who doesn't stand up for his rights or defend his points in an argument.

21.  Someone you don't understand a bit.

Ok!, there you have it, twenty kind or persons you shouldn’t be calling friend. If you discover a friend who has continually failed in delivering best –friends services to you, go ahead, carry out a friend-auditing exercise, do not be afraid to lose the person.

Now that you have seen these twenty attributes that bad friends have, I believe you can list out twenty equal ones great friends should have. It then becomes equally important that you imbibe those good virtues; otherwise your name may be appearing on the de-friending list of your friend.

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